Have u receive yr break up inheritance? CLEO

Meaningful.. Wanna share w all.. CLEO page 70.

HE cheated on u.
Betrayals r always devastating but b4 u found out abt his, u probably suspected smt was amiss.
Your inheritance: A Stronger u!
An affair is usually a sysptom, not a cause of a break-up.
Think abt wat was wrong w the relationship b4 the fling and u'll gain insights into how to prevent it in future.
Whatever the reasons for his actions, they don't absolve him of blame, so dun beat yrself up over it.

U were on and off... n finally off..
After a long and tiring string of breakups and make up sex, u were too tired to keep it going.
Your inheritance: Learning to cut yr losses.
Patching things up cos u feel like u still love each other never works.
After the honeymood period, the same problem resurface.
Make a list of the reasons why u guys fight and if they persistantly reappear and there's little hope of change, its time to put an end to yr misery.

PeiYi and Gladys, r u reading it? Haha..

Ok, my 2 cents worth.
I heard a story today abt a couple.
Husband whom promise wife to quit smoking till now, still smoking at times.
Wife angry.

Yes, she is right to be angry. U break yr promise.
For me, I hate pple whom smoke too and needless to say breaking of promise.
So unglam, unhealthy n most imptly, waste of $$.
N if u gonna break it, dun keep it.

Lets instill some positive thinking...
In my shoes, I'll be angry too cos he break his promise

BUT come to tink abt it,
He didnt cheat on me,
I rather he smoke then he go ard womanizing, gambling off all the $$, beat me up, etc..

Humans will always have bad habits and as a couple, I feel we shl try to COMPROMISE. Hee.. Yes, this is the word.

As long as u dun smoke infront of me (I'll end up inhaling more toxic then a smoker!),
As long as I can c yr effort in trying not to smoke so much infront of me.. I'm fine :)

Life is short.
If u r unhappy, the day will turn night after 12hrs..
If u r happy, the sun will rise n set too..

Y not look at the brighter side of everything?
U have a choice in life.
Its either u look at positive things negatively or negative things positively.

Just like what I've mentioned 2 mths ago,
Being thrify or being stingy.
Being confident or arrogent.
U decide.

Easier said than done.
I know its difficult, cos I'm still learning to do that.

End of the day, I just wan u to be happy.