How true and how much yr partner loves u?

Before I comment of this.
I had to say a VERY BIG THANK YOU to Lianne..
For helping me to change the skin of my blog :)
Sorry ah, I change it back. Waste yr effort.
Cos, my frd commented very difficult to read. HAha.
N most imptly, I dun wanna always trouble u whenever I wanna change any stuff.
Still appreciate it lots!
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Ok, come back to this topic.
This is what I've concluded after reading books, self experienced, thru frd's experience, etc.
Sorry guys, its mostly for gals.
Please do not quote me. Just my 2 cents worth :)

Firstly, tink abt how both of u gets to know each other.
If its thru friends intro, or sch mates, most of the time, its fine.
What I'm trying to say is, how he get to know u, he can do the same to other gals too.

Next, how soon is he trying to get "close" to u? N how far did he get?
If everything happen on yr first date. Hmmm...
What I can say is, I've girl friends whom bf only get "more intimate"with them ONLY after becoming their husband. ReSpeCt is the reason I got from their husband.

How much he loves u?
For this, u have many factors. There is no yes n no ans.
Definately not by just saying I love u.
Is how much he willing to sacrific for u and how much effort he put in just to please u.

How he behaves infront of yr frds and how he treat yr frds is impt too!
If he "show face" n quarrel or shout at u infront of ur frds.. Its time to throw him away!
Its always gd that u know each other frds and go out together with each other's friends at times.
It means - he is interested!! If he doesnt even bother who u gg out with or know who r yr frds..
Means, he cldnt be bother abt u.
However, u gonna be extra caution if he is "too concern" or "too close"with ur frds.
U get what I mean.

How he treat his family n yr family?
No matter how nasty or whatever wrong did the parents have done.
There is no reason to be rude to yr own family members.
How he treat his family members is how he is going to treat u in future.
How he treat your family members shows how much he respect u.
N rem! Dump him if he talks bad abt yr familY!

$$$ - Sensitive but impt factor.
Someone told me, if a guy kept telling he is broke, he is penniless, or even lend $ from u -- Dump him!
Stop complaining n start doing smt abt it..
Tink abt it, whats his motive of telling u that?
Come on, lets be practical, The most basic thing a man should least fulfil is not to let u strave.
In Singapore, I dun c y u cant find a job? That is if u r not too greedy or overate yrself or just plain LAZY.

How much does he spend on u?
This is quite a arguementive statement.
What I simply meant was,
If he have a dollar and he spend it all on himself.
If he have a dollar and he spend some on u and some on himself.
If he have a dollar and he choose to keep it and not spend it on anyone.
If he have a dollar and spend all on u.
Extremes are normally not gd. Too spendthrift or spending too much is always not wise.
U decide it for yrself then.

Hmmm.. of course there are more factors to consider and to be taken into consideration.

Habits is smt which u pick up along the way and can be changed
BUT
Character is what u r made up of and even if he/she is willing to change, it takes a long long time.

However Many a times, Leopard can never change it spots.

NO one is perfect.
It depends on how positively or negatively u take it upon.
Some might c yr plus point as yr weakness n attack it.
Some may appreciate yr negative points in a positive manner.

The bottom line is, in a relationship, understanding, trust and communication is very important.
Trust is one thing whereby once u lose it, its very difficult to get it back anymore ~

I wish everyone well in ur relationships - To love and be loved.